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#21 我們都走了 我們都不一樣了
愛情婚嫁
李小時・2015-04-10

親愛的你: 毫無預警的,與你,竟在分開了的第974天,不期然地,相遇。在這間我們以前經常去的面檔,你依舊點了你最喜愛的牛根米線;我還是照舊的,點了我的包心丸粉,看著坐在旁邊桌子的你,一點也沒有變。仍舊是吃得這樣斯文,這樣小口小口地吃,不慌不忙;記得那時候與你一起,我總是很快地吃完,再靜靜地啜著一枝可樂,慢慢「欣賞」你的食相,那時的我,覺得這是一種幸福。喔,那時的我,曾天真的以為我可以一直的看著你的食相,就這樣過一輩子。可惜,世上沒有人可以肯定任何事情,聚散本就是平常事。只是,想不到我們一分散,竟是漫長的974天,我以為,我和你,就算分手以後,都會成為無話不說的好朋友,可惜,在過去的日子裏,誰也沒有勇氣找誰,更別說無話不談了。你我共同認識的朋友都很識趣,在分手後的日子,任何共同出席的宴會,總會巧妙地安排我們不會碰著,也就是說,今天,是我們分手後的,第一次,碰面。也沒有甚麼尷尬與不尷尬的,你我就很自然的望著對方,然後,微笑。是那久違了的微笑讓我想起了,我們曾經快樂的那段回憶,亦是那抹微笑讓我記起了當年我們的種種,嗯,很久違了的感覺,就像看著泛黃了的照片那樣,百感交雜。過去了吧,屬於我們的故事早就已經結束,再多,就只是朋友。思及此,我舉起了手上的那枝可樂,而你,也舉起了你的那杯奶茶,然後,我們視線交匯的那瞬間,我們笑了出聲。飲勝吧,為著我們已逝去的愛情,也為著我們剛萌芽的友情,飲勝吧!看過一句很棒的說話,與之共勉「世上存在情感這回事,本就值得快樂,無論當下你擁有,還是失去。」後記:我一直都很想跟你說,我很討厭你喝奶茶,因為每次你都會放很多很多的奶,這些年來,我一直都沒有告訴你,其實我有乳糖過敏症,我喜歡少奶多糖的奶茶,你的奶茶其實很難喝。我一直沒有告訴你,而你,終究還是沒有發現。 (會過去的 詞:黃婷 曲:譚志華 唱:梁靜茹)

今時今日七夕的你和我
愛情婚嫁
Yeuk・2018-08-17

今天牛郎和織女終於可以相見了。 這個美麗,千古流傳的愛情故事。只有每年的這一天才可以在鵲橋相會。一年只能會面一次的愛情故事也太過淒美了吧! 想起牛郎與織女,再想起現在的人,我想知道到底是世界變了讓愛情都變質還是現代人太複雜不再稀罕愛情? 一年只能見一次的愛情都能長長久久,但反而現在每天都能相見的戀人卻輕易地分手。就算每天都見的戀人,是否真的有珍惜一起的時光?出去吃飯時,我留意到有一半或以上的人都只顧著看手機而不是看著坐在對面的那個人,難道手機裡的一切真的比有血有肉的人更吸引嗎? 腦海中忽然響起陳奕迅的一首歌 「螢幕發光,無論什麼都看。」發光的螢幕,無論是已經沒有更新的Facebook ,Instagram 或朋友圈都繼續看,卻不願和坐在對面的那個人多聊兩句。沒有智能手機前,人們也不是這樣呀!科技讓人們更靠近彼此,讓我們可以和在遠處的親朋戚友聯絡,無奈的是,卻令近在眼前的人變得非常遙遠。 「shall we talk shall we talk 」 看著面前的人卻不知道該怎樣開口,對著手機裡的人卻有源源不絕的話題。 「陪我講出我們最後何以生疏?」 感情是要維繫的,牛郎與織女每年只見一次也能熱戀多年。每天能夠相見的戀人雖然不是無時無刻都會經歷驚天動地的事,但生活上的點滴已是最動人的時刻。學懂放下手機,專心留意一下眼前的這個人,你便會發覺其實他/她比手機裡的一切都更可愛! 最後,我突然想到如果牛郎與織女生在一個有技能手機的時代,也許他們除了七夕時能相見,他們在其他的日子也可以FaceTime 呢! 光是想想也替他們感到開心!

渣男
玄學星相
熊神進・2016-11-21

八字不平衡, 太炎太寒都會左右一個人的婚姻, 她的官殺星混雜, 從某些角度來說, 女性的官星宜專, 所謂專, 就是不混殺星, 一當殺星出現, 戀愛關係就複雜起來, 未必是件樂事。 她一次又一次遇上渣男, 每個男人都是喜歡她的身體, 睡醒了, 他們又找一個理由分手, 她很累, 步入三十歲, 床是冷冷的。 她看到鄰家姑娘走入婚姻殿堂, 而自己呢, 她哭了很多次, 每次的心都是痛。 她嘗試用最有效的肥皂去清洗渣男留在自己身體上的負能量, 很痛心, 她愈用力去擦, 身體愈受傷, 她仍是帶著滿身負能量活下去! 在玄學上, 女人遇到渣男是因為大運的五行先合夫宮再遇上“亡魂日”, 女人在亡魂日是最迷糊, 半昏半醒就失去了身體。玄學家認為, 渣, 是人品問題, 是五行太枯太潤的缺憾, 從過去的觀察, 筆者發現渣男是極度以自我為中心、極度自私自利、極擅長索取、極不會對女性負責任(逼女友打胎)。渣男的人格存在永久的缺陷, 但他不認為自己有什麼問題。很多女讀者來信向我哭訴, 她們妄想改變男友, 她們很累, 最終在長久日子裡接受他的變態心理, 認為他是帥/有錢/很愛自己, 筆者不是愛情專家, 只是從她們的人生中印證一句話: 命運掌握在強者手裡, 如果她們一開始懂得放手, 今天她們就改變了命運! 在婚姻輔導座談會中, 我記得自己曾經說過一句話(之後被很多讀者轉發): 情緒穩定對一個男人很重要, 翻臉比翻書還要快的男人, 他一定是浮雲, 不靠攏, 離開吧。

澳門路牌是澳門歷史的佐證
宗教玄學
熊神進・2024-10-04

Some toponímicas ao papel pictures and texts are peeling off, and citizens are worried that this will affect Macau's feng shui. After the handover, Macau retained Portuguese characteristics, such as Calçada Portuguesa, cesto de lixo, cabin telefónica, candeeiro de rua, Farol da Guia, placas toponímicas a azulejo, etc. These are the focus of attracting tourists from all over the world to visit Macau. Having inspected some places recently, I.A.M. personnel discovered that a batch of newly replaced placas toponímicas a azulejo had quality problems. The personnel spotted the non-compliance with the required manufacturing process and suspected fraud, and the case was reported for investigation. As for placas toponímicas a azulejo suspected of cutting corners, law enforcement agencies have launched relevant investigations and taken temporary remedial measures for placas toponímicas a azulejo that have peeled off to ensure the function of placas toponímicas a azulejo as directional signages. The problematic placas toponímicas a azulejo will be replaced as soon as possible and the work will be completed within the fourth quarter of this year. The placas toponímicas a azulejo in Macau, rooted in the art of azulejos, reflect the city's cultural diversity. Their distinctive blue and white color scheme, adorned with placas toponímicas in both Chinese and Portuguese, has become an integral part of Macau's identity. During the Portuguese reign, the placas toponímicas a azulejo was a testament to the city's multicultural fabric, with the Portuguese language dominating three-quarters of the plate surface area and the Chinese language occupying the remaining quarter. Mickey Hung went to Rua dos Eucaliptos, Parque Industrial Luen San, Coloane last week and saw o placas toponímicas a azulejo. The placas toponímicas were initially supposed to be made of fired ceramics. Now, they are suspected of having papels on the surface of the white tiles, and they are surrounded by an edge pattern that is yellowing and falling off. According to the provisions of the project-related documents, placas toponímicas a azulejo must be manufactured using the "sob esmalte" technique, and the procedure specifications to be followed by the "sob esmalte" method are clearly stated. However, during the inspection, I.A.M. personnel discovered that the placas toponímicas were not fired with "sob esmalte" according to the procedure specifications, and there was a suspicion of cutting corners. O placas toponímicas a azulejo is the quintessence of Portugal and a mirror of Feng Shui, which can reflect the core values of a city. The people's culture of a city is reflected in the mirror, and the Road name sign is a history textbook that prints Macao citizens' past living habits and Macao's historical origin. It's like the early Pátio da Indigência and the people here lived relatively poor lives in the past. Later, the street name was changed to Travessa de S. Paulo on August 19, 1969. There are many ways to name streets in Macau. One common practice is naming them after street landmarks and buildings. However, as time passes, the buildings have been moved away from the streets or disappeared entirely, making the street names somewhat inconsistent. The Chinese street names may change to a new one based on the reality. Like Calçada de Tronco Velho, the place used to be a prison. After the prison was moved, the original Portuguese street name remained unchanged. This shows that placas toponímicas a azulejo is a witness to the history and civilization of Macau. O placas toponímicas a azulejo must not only have appealing outlook, but also have connotation. If it is just a placas toponímicas a azulejo, it will not play a role in feng shui. When O placas toponímicas a azulejo records a piece of history, it is alive and spiritual. There is a story; this is what Feng Shui experts call "spirituality," which is Feng Shui.