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#008 是他也是你和我
李小時・2015-01-24

早前跟別人談起了這個專欄的文章, 「除了愛情,你還會寫甚麼?」 「關於愛情專欄,類似你之前的文章, 但改以評論感想的寫作方式不是更好?」 其實,我沒有很排除寫作的題材, 做傳媒這麼多年了, 大抵甚麼題材的軟性文種也寫過, 之於愛情專欄, 以前的我也是很喜歡說大道理, 指導又或是給予別人一些建議, 但隨著年紀越來越大, 越覺得甚麼大道理都不重要, 最重要的是我需要你的時候, 你剛好在, 這樣就好。 在開心與不開心時, 你只要聽我說說話就好, 你不必告訴我應該做甚麼, 只好這樣, 不要怎樣。 甚麼道理、甚麼做法我都懂, 我只是剛好想找個與我無關的人, 說說我的故事, 她的回應是甚麼都不重要, 我只想告訴她, 一些我跟朋友親人都不會說出得話, 如此而已。 我不知道, 除了我以外有沒有人跟我有相同的想法, 但在這個專欄發表的文章, 均是建基於這個念頭的。 這裏大部份的文章均在說故事, 有時候是我的故事, 有時候是別人的。 我深信, 「太陽底下無新事」, 在你身上發生, 在別人身上發生的, 也許 或者 總會不期然地發現有雷同的地方, 在他人的身上看到了自己的影子, 「喔,原來不只我才會發生這種事!」 我的文章, 就是想這樣告訴你 其實, 我們都一樣, 在愛情裏跌跌撞撞, 有快樂, 也有悲傷。 然而, 在這條未知的路上, 有你, 也有我。 狂潮 詞:黃霑 曲:顧嘉輝 原唱:關菊英 翻唱:方大同

寫在火人祭後兩個月,那些仍然抹不掉的灰塵中
專題報導
活該快樂 // Carmen Lo・2019-01-01

地球上最荒涼的沙漠,每年只出現八天的城市,全宇宙最大的遊樂場! 這Burning Man,有毒 在我最後一片因為這趟旅程而壞了的腳趾甲終於自然剝落的這一天,我鼓起勇氣把一直擱在一旁,仍然佈滿沙漠灰塵的背包打開,把裡面的東西逐一翻出來,帳篷、地墊、睡袋、大小背包和燈具等等,一一好好清洗,然後晾在入冬的陽光下。可是,歷盡風沙的裝備,無論如何努力洗擦,多少已經有點不一樣,鋪上不能磨滅的愴桑感。 這些痕跡,總在不經意的時候提醒我,我曾經是一位Burner,有一部分的靈魂留在那邊,今後也不是一樣的我了。 難怪人說,這個火人祭,有毒。 自從九月初從火人祭回來後,我並沒有急於把照片和過程馬上寫下來分享。好些朋友一直追問,說期待看到我的文字和照片。 我沒有為了要把握新鮮熱燙而強迫自己去寫,而是讓自己整整沉澱了七十多天。從美國乘飛機回家當天,我只把發臭的衣服拿出來,然後刻意關上背包,一直不去碰它,甚至連記憶滿滿的照相機,我也沒有打開過。 我刻意把經歷擱在一旁,讓現實生活一層一層蓋上去。 我很想知道,這場夢,到底有多真實。 炙熱的溫度,仍在皮膚上。 在一望無際,除了沙就是塵的貧乏土地,被喻為地球上最荒涼的沙漠之一,每年只出現八天的城市--黑石城。白天四、五十度,晚上幾度,加上頻頻來襲令你不能開眼不能呼吸的沙塵暴;沒水沒電、沒商店交通;睡帳篷,不洗澡;大會提供的僅僅只有旱廁、冰塊和咖啡。 網絡上說這是狂野音樂會、性愛樂園、瘋狂藝展、派對天堂、磨菇(毒品)場等等。每年的門票總在半天內搶購一空,參與人數每年持續上升,今年就有七萬多人成為這裡的居民。 如果這是真的,讓我好奇的是,環境如此惡劣,參與難度如此高,為何每年有幾萬人,搶著來這裡克難。 這裡缺水缺電缺網絡,唯一不缺的,是詩和遠方 Burning Man源於三十多年前一位美國男子Larry,有一晚在海灘燃燒一個簡陋的木頭人,因離婚而鬱悶的情緒得到極大宣洩,遂與朋友每年相聚交流,並燃燒木頭人,喻意重生。後來人數越來越多,因安全理由被地方政府禁辦,需另覓合適地點,最終落戶在渺無人煙的內華達沙漠至今。 參與者須完全自給自足,自備帳篷、水、食物等所有生存裝備,在貧乏的環境下渡過八天。你以為這會是苟且可憐的生活嗎?錯了!這裡同時也是世界上最大的藝術展覽場,數千件大大小小的裝置藝術品屹立在偌大的沙漠各處,有些甚至高達三十米,規模和幅員之廣,我敢說,地球上沒有一個藝術館可比美。 究竟要對一件事情有多大的愛,要對自己的作品有多驕傲,才會在如此嚴苛的環境下,沒水沒電沒金錢回報地,組裝如此巨型珣麗的藝術品,就只為了展示人前,公諸同好,樂在其中? 還有幾百台大大小小的花車,在城市中左穿右插--裸體壯男駕駛的粉紅色毛毛兔子、會噴火的五頭龍、用廚具堆砌的移動城堡等等,你會以為自己活在宮崎駿的筆下。你可以隨時跳上任何一台花車,聊天、免費酒水、跳舞、觀光,經過吸引你目光的帳篷,你又可以馬上跳下去,進入另一個世界。 Photo by Rolando Lee 行為藝術也是黑石城重要的元素,居民可以盡情地穿上自己喜愛或平日不敢穿的奇裝異服,不少男的就易服穿裙子胸罩絲襪,好多人甚至完全赤裸,舒泰而滿足地活。沒有人會管你是否有肚腩、有妊娠紋,沒有人會盯著你的奶奶和雞雞看。在這裡,人人都在表現及分享自己喜歡的事情,而同時都尊重對方的狀態,你是誰你做甚麼,我都歡迎,我都喜歡你。 會行走的東西還包括這裡主要的代步工具--單車,人們絕不放過能夠表現自己創意的機會,每一台單車都有被悉心打扮過,都會發亮,有馬頭、恐龍、尾巴、巨型陽具,非常有趣。 奇怪的是,在一個如此短暫的城市,無論是藝術品、居所、服裝,並沒有人因為計算成本效益而簡約了事,反而是極盡所能地把自己最喜愛的,認為最有趣的東西秀出來。玩得如此認真、活得如此認真的一群人,一大群人。 也許就如林一峰說,如果計較成本,很多美好的事情就不會發生。 Photo by Rolando Lee 炫目到不真實的夜間童話國 沙漠的白天,到處都是黃色的,像星球大戰的場景。 晚上是彩色的,到處都是燈,所有藝術品全部變成光影秀,城市變成眩目的大都會,五光十色、璀璨等都不足以形容,好多,好亮。這裡每一顆燈都有生命,並非如城市夜景中那些銅臭的招牌霓虹或目無表情的辦公大樓。 所有人和單車都會在身上纏滿各式的閃燈,一來為了黑暗中的安全,更重要的是要讓人知道,這裡有一個活潑的生命,一個發亮的靈魂,一份獨特的驕傲。 Photo by Rolando Lee Photo by Rolando Lee Photo by Rolando Lee 每一個童話國的晚上,騎著單車在沒有行車線的沙漠平原上遊走,穿梭於千種顏色中,感覺自己就像一條深海中不知名的甲殼動物一樣,自由地在水中浮動。 一輩子看過的夜景不少,沒有比這個更美,這份美不在炫目,這美,在生命力,創造力,在自傲。 極端貧瘠和極盡華麗,沙塵和炫光,獨特驕傲卻不孤高,特立卻非獨行,怪咖卻友善,這一切強烈對比的極端狀態,日日夜夜猛烈地衝擊著我的身心。 我的血液給混進了一點點荒唐,我感覺到我生命的一部分因為當過這裡的居民而有所不同。 下一篇 寫在火人祭後 極端匱乏的烏托邦,一切都是免費的,你只需付出尊重

The Energy Transition and Survival Wisdom Between the Eighth and Ninth Luck Cycles
宗教玄學
熊神進・2026-01-05

The ThreeYuan and NineLuck system, a grand framework in Chinese metaphysics for interpreting the changes of time and space, operates on a 180year cycle, with an energy shift occurring every 20 years. The Eighth White Gen Earth Luck, spanning from 2004 to 2023, has come to an end. Starting from 2024, the Ninth Purple Li Fire Luck has officially begun. The energy transition from quot;Earthquot; to quot;Firequot; not only reshapes the underlying logic of the era but also manifests the intensity of energy collisions through events like wars and fires. Only by understanding the differences and inherent mechanisms can we secure our footing amid the changing circumstances. The Eighth Luck corresponds to the Gen Trigram in I Ching, where Gen represents mountains and belongs to the Earth element in the Five Elements theory, with its core energy characterized by quot;stability, tangibility, and accumulationquot;. As the element that bears and nurtures all things, Earth defined the global consensus of the two decades quot;He who holds land holds wealthquot;. Chinarsquo;s urbanization wave swept across the nation, with steel and concrete erecting thousands of new cities; the U.S. real estate frenzy before the subprime mortgage crisis and Dubairsquo;s construction of artificial islands through land reclamation all testified to the wealth code of the Earth Luck. The logic of success back then was crystal clearmdash;heavy assets, tangible industries, and solid infrastructure. Properties were hard currency, and land parcels were like moneyprinting machines; all values were anchored in visible, touchable material carriers, as stable and solid as towering mountains, forming the reassuring backdrop of that era under the influence of Earth energy. The Ninth Luck, which commenced in 2024, centers on the Li Trigram and belongs to the Fire element, boasting entirely distinct energy traits Fire embodies quot;dynamism, brightness, and intangibilityquot;, symbolizing both light and civilization while harboring inherent restlessness and unpredictability. Fire tends to flare upward, craving extreme attention and splendor; its flame is fickle, shifting with the wind, surging forth rapidly and fading just as quickly; its form is etherealmdash;one can see the blazing flames yet grasp not a single tangible particle. This energy transition is by no means a smooth one. The period from 2024 to 2025 serves as an interim phase where the stability of Earth and the restlessness of Fire clash fiercely. The chaotic phenomena in the world are precisely the external manifestations of this energy misalignmentmdash;and this marks the most fundamental difference between the Ninth Luck and the Eighth Luck the Eighth Luck pursues quot;stabilityquot;, while the Ninth Luck strives for quot;changequot;; the Eighth Luck emphasizes quot;tangibilityquot;, while the Ninth Luck focuses on quot;intangibilityquot;; the Eighth Luck is about quot;laying the foundationquot;, while the Ninth Luck is about quot;breaking the moldquot;. From Feng Shui perspective, the overflow of Fire energy in the Ninth Luck has directly given rise to two types of typical events. First is geopolitical conflicts. Fire governs quot;flaring up and disputesquot;, and the Li Trigram also connotes quot;separation and oppositionquot;. When Fire energy abounds without proper guidance, it is prone to triggering confrontations and wars. The prolonged stalemate of the RussiaUkraine conflict and the border frictions between Thailand and Cambodia are, in essence, the materialization of the quot;restless energyquot; of the Fire Luck in regional energy fields. The balanced patterns established during the previous Earth Luck have been shattered; disputes and conflicts are like sparks that can easily ignite a prairie fire, which is exactly the manifestation of the quot;combative naturequot; of the Li Fire. Second is the frequent occurrence of fires. The quot;Fire Shaquot; energy in the Ninth Luck has intensified. As recorded in The Ten Books of Yangzhai Residential Architecture, Fireshaped Sha is associated with the risk of fires and bloodshed disasters. Moreover, the sharpangled structures and flammable building materials in modern architecture further exacerbate the accumulation of fiery and dry energy. The massive fire that broke out in a fivestar Residential in Hong Kong at the end of 2025 spread rapidly through the buildingrsquo;s structure, causing heavy losses in a short time. This incident serves as a direct warning of the quot;intense Fire energyquot; in the Ninth Luck, standing in stark contrast to the Eighth Luck period, when largescale and fastspreading fires were rare. Of particular concern is the year 2026mdash;the Bingwu Year in the Chinese sexagenary cycle. The Heavenly Stem Bing represents Yang Fire, like wildfires raging across the grasslands, while the Earthly Branch Wu represents Yin Fire, like embers smoldering and burning inward. The overlapping of these two Fire elements creates a scenario of quot;adding fuel to the firequot;, making it the year with the most intense Fire energy in the entire Ninth Luck cycle. This blaze does not only consume the material world but also drains peoplersquo;s mental and physical vitalitymdash;the Li Trigram corresponds to the heart, eyes, and blood circulatory system in the human body. Excessive Fire energy is likely to induce health issues such as hypertension, cardiovascular and cerebrovascular diseases, and emotional irritability. The quot;stable daily routinesquot; that suited the Earth Luck era can no longer adapt to the energy rhythm of the Fire Luck, making physical and mental imbalance a prevalent risk.

From the perspective of feng shui, why do people in Macau feel dissatisfied and complain about everything?
宗教玄學
熊神進・2023-03-21

Column Name Macau Feng Shui There are three important discussion points in Feng Shui, one is quot;Dragon Veinsquot;, one is quot;Shuikou Nozzlequot;, and the other is quot;Feng Shui pointsquot;. quot;Dragon veinquot; is to see the ups and downs of a place, quot;Shuikou Nozzlequot; is to see the water flow of the harbor, and quot;Feng Shui pointquot; is to see the residence. Macau is located in the southeast of China, on the west bank of the outlet of the Pearl River Delta. It includes the Macau peninsula, Taipa Island and Coloane. The sea area is 85 square kilometers, while the land area is 33.3 square kilometers. As of the end of September last year, the total population was 671,900. According to Feng Shui theory, Macau is located in the lower reaches of the Pearl River Delta. The water in the lower reaches is relatively shallow and the flow rate is not high, so Macau is surrounded by silt, and the silt deposits produce negative energy. Negative energy needs to be absorbed by high mountains. Unfortunately, there is no high mountain in Macau, so negative energy accumulates Down into bleakness. According to the ratio of population to land area, Macao is a highly densely populated place. Homes have their own magnetic field, and people have their own energy. Poor ventilation stuck the field and energy, followed by many problems, such as disease, poverty, and public grievances. Shakespeare once said quot; ldquo;The miserable have no other medicine, but only hope.rdquo;. The reason why the residents of Macau are full of resentment is because the feng shui aura is not smooth. The turbid air causing the citizens burning out of work and feeling frustrated with life. Also, the muddy water makes people feel the future is uncertain, and young people find their opportunities is limited. In recent years, Macao has completed largescale land reclamation between Ponte de Amizade and Ponte Governador Nobre de Carvalho. The design style and length of the two bridges of the reclamation project are different, and the bridges are not extended parallel. Near Taipa Island, the water inlet is relatively narrow. This shape looks like a funnel. The Feng Shui pattern is called quot;thin water and long flow.quot; However, the government did not follow the Feng Shui requirements. The reclamation straightened the shoreline and sped up the water flow. Regarding Feng Shui, water is wealth, and wealth is economy. Speedy water flow means rushing out the wealth, which also accelerates the accumulation of sediments downstream. When the sediments pile in the water, economic development is also stagnant. Young people's future is full of barriers as well. No wonder their grievance is growing. The ancients believed that the sea water should not be too turbulent. Instead, slow and meandering water is associated with affection and livelihood. This is true in Feng Shui. Macau is located in the lower reaches of the Pearl River, the bank is shallow so the water flow is naturally slow. However, the reclamation further block the water flow. Sediment is accumulating. In resonance, people also feel stuck and in bad mood always. The current remedy is to restart the Portas do Entendimento, which is the Memorial Gate of SinoPortuguese Friendship, and also the quot;Luo Xingquot; meaning ldquo;gaterdquo; on Fengshui Shuikou the nozzle. This door implies the meaning of quot;integrationquot;, quot;harmonyquot; and quot;doorwayquot;. It is called quot;Ronghemenquot; in Chinese. Everyone lives in peace and harmony. The water flow is reactivated to relief the negative energy accumulated presviouly. Macau is not a battleground for partisan political struggles, nor is it a trick for citizens to complain about the governmentrsquo;s governance. Many local people and people from abroad have always regarded Macau as a paradise for retirement. This shows that Macau is a peaceful place to recuperate and get rich. Because of the lack of proper feng shui setting in the city planning, the public will feel a sense of grievance and dissatisfied about everything. Note The Shuikou nozzle, the inlet and outlet of the water flow. MICKEY HUNG By MICKEY HUNG

Don't relaxvigilance against evil-doers
玄學星相
熊神進・2016-07-07

There was a pornographic website contacting me before. They wanted me to write an womenrsquo; lascivious physiognomy on their website but I refused. From my professional ethics, physiognomy is not divided into immorality, lowliness, hero and rogue. Everything is from ldquo;heart ldquo;attitude, behavior, conductquot;. No one can figure out that a baby will become a national leader or a thief from its physiognomy of eyes, ears, nose and mouth after growing up. What an irresponsible wording is. More compelling way is to provide some information to them that it will develop into these results only if you donrsquo;t pay attention to personal behavior. If the girl's eyebrows are too narrow which will let her boyfriend worry. In general eyebrows can analyze a person's social skills. With thicker eyebrows, the people are more optimistic. Therefore, they have better relationship with friends. But you have to pay attention that it is a complex society, human nature is. The relationship with friends means you get along with strangers. You have chance to be exploited and betrayed by your friends even if you have a good relationship with them. I have a friend who is a police officer with shaggy eyebrows.The distance between two eyebrows is less than the width of a finger. Because of her special occupation, she often drinks alcohol and entertain with subordinates and friends.I have given her some advices that you must notrelax vigilance against evildoers. But she said no one would offend her as her job. Three years ago, she came to my office to see me. It was the first time that I saw her cry. Her crying is not because of her wayward behavior, but her radical personality and strong subjectivity. Therefore, she will not accept other suggestion. Due to study crime psychology, I understand psychology of friendsrsquo; of rape very well.I repeatedly reminded her many times. 1Must watch and drink the beverage which is pour out from the unopened bottle . 2Never let the cup leave your sight and change the new one if you go to toilet, singing and dancing. 3 Make an appointment with boyfriend, trusted friends and family to pick up you in advance. Donrsquo;t go home alone or by their cars, preferring to take a taxi. ■作者:熊神進(澳門玄學家),Emailfortune@macau.ctm.net 如有任何問題,歡迎聯絡: 林小姐 13726267799晚8時後 熊神進:澳門 85366618785 Facebook 熊神進澳門風水師 公共微信 macaumasterxiong 淘寶風水法器店:httpmacauhung.taobao.com