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You’re not familiar with me, but I understand you.

熊神進・2016-06-16

When handling marital disputes, some people often tell me, “he/she doesn’t understand me.”You said that he/she didn’t understand you, well, did you really know yourself? Everyone has a nature of protection and defense, if we keep this kind of mentality for long term, we would suffer from “False Consensus Effect”. To put it simply, this is a Self-centered mental state, we mistakenly assume that our opinion, faith or action are universal. Actually, humanity is complicated, there are far more people who have different ideas with us than we can imagine. Horoscope is a tool for analyzing human personality, and also it has became useful references been adopted by more and more fortune tellers, psychologists and social workers. When I study on people who have astrological sign of Pisces, I find that they are rather rebellious in the deep of their heart. You have to have something unique if you want to make Pisces falls in love with you, and the more important thing is this kind of unique is just what the Pisces dying for but out of reach all along. Only in this way can you gain affections from the Pisces, otherwise, you’d only get sent off with a flea in your ear if you start courting them without understanding their inward world. Here I give you another example, Gemini were identified as having dual character by astrologists. In fact, the truth is they just enjoy putting their self-position in a higher level than people of other astrological signs. They consider themselves as completed existence, yet others are both simple and easy ones. It’s widely believed by Gemini that people must spend a long time if they want to know about them, however, it won’t take too much time for a Gemini to get familiar with others. That’s why Gemini boys and girls always need a quite long period of time to get their breath again from a broken relationship. Why is it so? It’s nothing but being self-centered! After studying on astrology and psychology for decades, I find that there is always a weakness in the boys and girls of the air signs, Gemini, which is he/she might be upset one minute ago, but after the one minute, they could be suddenly enlightened again. If you take it as people of Gemini are quite familiar with themselves, or they have figured out, well, you are affected by “False Consensus Effect” again. People who have astrological sign of Gemini are supper good at hiding their emotions; they felt heart-broken when they were dumped, so at the same time, they chose to do two things, which were not clever, of course, the first step was building a wall to isolate themselves from the outside; and the second one was deleting all the old memories from their mind and the text messages. They were really hurt by “Self-center”! They’re not only unfamiliar with others, they even don’t know about themselves! We shouldn’t persist in assuming “other people doesn’t know about me”, actually, how much I can know about you is just the part you know about me, isn’t it? 如有任何問題，歡迎聯絡：林小姐: 13726267799(晚8時後) 熊神進：澳門 853-66618785 Facebook: 熊神進(澳門風水師) 公共微信: macaumasterxiong 淘寶風水法器店：http://macauhung.taobao.com