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How could we keep a long distance relationship alive?

熊神進・2016-04-27

How to keep alive of a long distance relationship? It really depends on how much you trust your boyfriend/girlfriend. Lyrics in a Cantonese folk song are written like this, being separated far away lovers, as long as you trust and understand one another, your love will not fade away. As we all know that it’s hard for long distance relationship to get happy ending, since love is inversely proportional to distance. For those couples who stay together every day, they could easily to forgive their boyfriend/girlfriend once they have had conflict, because sensing and intuition would do a great favour to making it up, for example, seeing tears falling down your girl’s cheek. On the opposite side, being reconciled will be not easy if the girl wrangling with her boyfriend far away. It’s said that distance makes heart grow fonder, but in love, it might turns into a high wall between you and your lover. The mutual feelings will certainly get unromantic if a couple of lover couldn’t meet up often enough because of the too far away geographic distance between them. In reality, too far away geographic distance might lead to drifting your boy/girl apart in psychological distance. Generally speaking, without great affection, long distance relationship is like a fragile glass, besides concerning their lovers, people might distrust their partners or worry about whether they have did anything disloyal. To sustain a long distance relationship, it needs to pay more cost. In my point of view, people in long distance relationship are much happier than ever before over the past decade because of the advanced internet technology and convenient transportation. Instead of talking face to face, we could hear the other’s voice and watch their faces via telephone, internet and Skype, etc. All those kinds of contact ways could help with in making you feel better in lovesickness to a certain degree, and the more important is effective communication and mutual understanding could be achieved. Many of my clients are in long distance relationship, once people could accept a lover far away from them, it reflects that they are mentally mature and independent, which means their attachment styles are secure. The “secure” people are not only self-confident, but also they feel rather confident in their partners. An ideal relationship should be composed of understanding, sense and trust, however, long distance relationship misses out on the element of sense. So, in order to establish long distance relationship, the key point is keeping smooth communication, and it’s best to arrange regular date with your boyfriend/girlfriend so that you could not to miss him/her too much. I used to introduce a method to people in long distance relationship, which was talking to your partner everyday and talking about everything in your life. Just express your feeling timely for making the other side clear that you are doing best to keep the relationship work. 　　如有任何問題，歡迎聯絡：林小姐: 13726267799(晚8時後) 熊神進：澳門 853-66618785 Facebook: 熊神進(澳門風水師) 公共微信: macaumasterxiong 淘寶風水法器店：http://macauhung.taobao.com

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