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#008 是他也是你和我
李小時・2015-01-24

早前跟別人談起了這個專欄的文章, 「除了愛情,你還會寫甚麼?」 「關於愛情專欄,類似你之前的文章, 但改以評論感想的寫作方式不是更好?」 其實,我沒有很排除寫作的題材, 做傳媒這麼多年了, 大抵甚麼題材的軟性文種也寫過, 之於愛情專欄, 以前的我也是很喜歡說大道理, 指導又或是給予別人一些建議, 但隨著年紀越來越大, 越覺得甚麼大道理都不重要, 最重要的是我需要你的時候, 你剛好在, 這樣就好。 在開心與不開心時, 你只要聽我說說話就好, 你不必告訴我應該做甚麼, 只好這樣, 不要怎樣。 甚麼道理、甚麼做法我都懂, 我只是剛好想找個與我無關的人, 說說我的故事, 她的回應是甚麼都不重要, 我只想告訴她, 一些我跟朋友親人都不會說出得話, 如此而已。 我不知道, 除了我以外有沒有人跟我有相同的想法, 但在這個專欄發表的文章, 均是建基於這個念頭的。 這裏大部份的文章均在說故事, 有時候是我的故事, 有時候是別人的。 我深信, 「太陽底下無新事」, 在你身上發生, 在別人身上發生的, 也許 或者 總會不期然地發現有雷同的地方, 在他人的身上看到了自己的影子, 「喔,原來不只我才會發生這種事!」 我的文章, 就是想這樣告訴你 其實, 我們都一樣, 在愛情裏跌跌撞撞, 有快樂, 也有悲傷。 然而, 在這條未知的路上, 有你, 也有我。 狂潮 詞:黃霑 曲:顧嘉輝 原唱:關菊英 翻唱:方大同

表象世界的《暗色天堂》
娛樂殿堂
鳳凰天空・2016-05-13

Text 楊易 圖片資料由網上收集 《暗色天堂》雖然講述一宗非禮案,但不是法庭戲;雖然是控告牧師非禮,戲中有教會,有唸經文等情節,但並不能歸類為宗教片。這其實是談人內心深處挖掘道德底線的電影,這樣說,是因為單憑被非禮的後遺症,以及虔誠的信仰都不足以解釋,戲中女主角為何五年來愧疚得認為自己不能上天堂,只因一個謊言就打垮了她的一生。 每個人都有自我塑造出來的形象,有人自認是美女,於是只在厚厚妝容下才肯見人;有人希望自己是好好先生,所以將罵人的重擔推給身邊人做,如此類推很多例子,反映出許多人都不想以真實的一面示人。《暗色天堂》的杜天明牧師(張學友飾)努力經營一個陽光形象:教會裡的精神領袖;女性心中事業有成的好男人;也是一位善心爆燈的人,寧願與全世界大型藥廠對抗,都要推行藥物回收,救助第三世界發展中國家買不起藥的病人。但他的車房朋友一句說話,間接揭露他做牧師之前,不過是一個酒色財氣的小混混,人性的陰暗面一直潛藏在心底。 直至一次,杜牧師與Michelle(林嘉欣飾)因喝醉酒而接吻。杜牧師百思不得其解,明明對方很接受,而且還問自己「你愛不愛我?」,為何第二天就提告非禮?就這樣,他留了案底,牧師及同行會主席也做不成,他由天堂跌落地獄。 他已忘記了自己性格上的陰暗面,那被名譽地位沖昏頭腦的高傲,令他在聽到「你愛不愛我?」後,忍不住嘲笑她是妓女,為了成為杜天明太太而設局接近他。一念之差,Michelle決定撕開他的偽善面具,寧願說謊去控告他,但謊言觸踫到她的道德底線,內疚充塞她往後的人生。 這不單是一齣戲,也是人生。我們每一個人都會塑造一個喜歡的形象,且不知不覺推砌了很多似真還假的表象。這解釋了為何許多人喜歡在網絡世界認識朋友,因為可以跳出平日在家人、同事及朋友間的乖乖形象,以真面目在網絡行走,舒適得多。如果你都感受過,那嘗試在你心底挖深一點,問問自己,當中是否有你抗拒不到的謊言,只是你認為這些都是微不足道,不足以傷害人而任它出現而已。 多少怨懟的夫妻,就是最初被對方自設的形象吸引,漸漸地發現原型畢露,其實雙方都沒有改變,為何總以「因了解而分開」作結!正如電影中所說「真相一直存在,只是人發明了謊言」,我們習慣生活在表象裡,也許忘卻自己的真象。

【澳門求職攻略2020】踏出脫離失業第九步:如何累積工作經驗
生活在我城
Cheers!・2020-07-06

求職者在澳門尋找工作的時候,會見到招聘廣告上,會要求求職者擁有一定年數的工作經驗。因此,比起職業技能,有時候澳門僱主會較喜歡聘用有豐富工作經驗的求職者,但工作經驗需要時間來累積,所以求職者應儘可能令到自己每段時間都有工作做,讓光陰過得充實。 在上一篇 【澳門求職攻略2020】踏出脫離失業第八步:如何提升職業技能 中,小編分享了一個能夠有效提升職業技能的步驟。除了職業技能要提升之外,求職者也需要累積工作經驗,才能夠令到履歷表更加突出,捕捉僱主的眼球。今次小編將會介紹一些在澳門能夠累積工作經驗的渠道。 兼職自由工作者 和全職工作相比之下,兼職和自由工作者雖然收入不穩定,而且沒有有薪假期及其他福利,但勝在上班時間夠彈性,而且職位要求不高,很快就可以上班工作,還可以接觸到不同類型的工作。有收入之餘,還能夠累積工作經驗,不少大學生都是靠做兼職賺外快來交學費的。 兼職工作大多數都可以在澳門各大求職網站內尋找得到。想知道澳門有那些求職網站,請瀏覽以下文章推介。 推薦閱讀:【澳門求職攻略2020】踏出脫離失業第一步:尋找適合自己的工作 義工 雖然沒有薪酬,而且還要付出時間,但義工工作意義重大,而且可以幫到有需要的澳門弱勢社群。不但可以令到求職者心情開朗,還可以結識到很多朋友。因為義工很講求團隊合作精神和個人領導能力,所以很適合求職者透過做義工來累積珍貴的工作經驗。在履歷表上添加義工工作經驗,一定能讓僱主加上分數。 澳門有很多志願團體都會定時招募義工,求職者不妨考慮向以下其中一些志願團體提出申請,成為義工的一分子。珍惜時間之餘,還能累積工作經驗,令人生過得更加充實。 澳門教育暨青年局 暑期義工計劃 2020 主辦單位:澳門教育暨青年局黑沙環青年活動中心 協辦單位:鮑思高青年服務網絡 義工招募對象:13至25歲澳門青年 報名日期:即日起至2020年7月21日 活動形式:面談、培訓課程、生活日營、義務工作實踐及總結會。 詳情:澳門教育暨青年局 教青局ldquo;暑期義工計劃2020rdquo;接受報名 澳門明愛 明愛之友 義工招募對象:16歲以上人士 工作範圍:關懷探訪、熱線問安、慈善活動支援及社區服務等。 詳情:澳門明愛 明愛之友 澳門愛護動物協會 工作範圍:接觸動物的工作(如帶狗隻散步,暫托動物)、教育工作、文職工作(中英翻譯、網頁、宣傳等)及探訪工作等。 詳情:澳門愛護動物協會 成為我們的義工 澳門紅十字會 義工招募對象:14歲以上人士,須先參加澳門紅十字會的「紅十字基本知識」、「關懷與溝通技巧」、「基礎護理」三項培訓。完成考核,再於一年內完成本會30個小時的社區服務後,方能正式成為澳門紅十字會社區義工。 工作範圍:社區服務、救護車司機、醫護服務、急救服務。 詳情:澳門紅十字會 社區義工團隊 申請表:澳門紅十字會 刊物表格下載 澳門奧比斯 工作範圍:文職工作、籌款活動、技術支援。 詳情:澳門奧比斯 成為義工 澳門衛生局捐血中心 工作範圍:捐血者餐廳服務、捐血者登記處服務、文書處理、翻譯、宣傳推廣設計、組織捐血流動隊服務、協助捐血流動隊服務、協辦活動。 詳情:澳門衛生局捐血中心 義工隊簡介 申請表:澳門衛生局捐血中心 加入義工行列 澳門扶康會 工作範圍:個案陪伴、活動籌劃、社區工作、資訊科技、賣旗、探訪、設計、興趣小組。 詳情:澳門扶康會 義工申請 澳門青年聯合會 工作範圍: 戶外工作:賣物會、賣旗籌款、步行籌款、慰問探訪社交、康樂及教育活動小組訓練及活動; 專業工作:翻譯、圖像設計、攝影、網頁設計、校對、編輯、出版大量印刷。 詳情:澳門青年聯合會 義工申請 澳門社區義工聯合總會 工作範圍:藝術文化、醫療保健、資訊科技、行政文書。 詳情:澳門社區義工聯合總會 義工中心 澳門志願者總會 工作範圍:社區服務、長幼及弱勢關懷、家居清潔維修、組織策劃、大型活動、扶貧探訪、文化創意及藝術、研究調查、培訓教學、宣傳推廣、旅遊嚮導、體育服務、醫療護理、禮儀接待、網頁設計多媒體、法律翻譯、環保服務、編輯出版。 詳情:澳門志願者總會 註冊表格 澳門特殊奧運會 詳情:澳門特殊奧運會 助人自助義工大招募 澳門義務工作者協會 詳情:澳門義務工作者協會 義工登記 澳門婦聯青年協會 飛躍青年義工團 義工招募對象:18至45歲居民 詳情:澳門婦聯青年協會 青年中心 另外,澳門教育暨青年局為鼓勵13至29歲的澳門青年持續參與義務工作,設立了「青年義工獎勵計劃」。教青局聯同參與機構,在每年1月1日至12月31日期間,透過記錄服務時數,為具備一定服務時數的澳門青年設置各類獎項作獎勵,以培養「助人自助」的精神。詳情可到 澳門教育暨青年局 青年義工獎勵計劃 了解更多。 實習計劃 有不少澳門機構都會為澳門青年人提供實習計劃。除了為公司發掘及招攬澳門人才之外,也給予青年人累積工作經驗的機會,將來投身職場時便會更具有競爭力,大大提升聘用的機會。通常每年4至7月期間,有意提供實習計劃的公司都會在其網站上公布實習計劃詳情,以下是其中一些會提供實習計劃的澳門機構。 青年善用餘暇計劃 主辦單位:澳門教育暨青年局駿菁活動中心 承辦單位:澳門清華大學課程校友會 對象:18至24歲的在學青年 報名日期:每年4至5月 詳情:澳門教育暨青年局 青年善用餘暇計劃2020 青少年成長計劃 疫流而上實習計劃 主辦單位:澳門電訊有限公司 對象:18歲或以上,應屆高中及大專畢業生、回澳海外留學生。 報名日期:每年4至5月 詳情:澳門電訊有限公司 公司新聞 粵港澳大灣區澳門青年實習計劃 合辦單位:澳門人才發展委員會、廣東省人民政府港澳事務辦公室 承辦單位:中華青年進步協會 對象:18至29歲,持澳門居民身份證的大專學生。 報名日期:每年4至7月 詳情:澳門人才發展委員會 粵港澳大灣區澳門青年實習計劃2020 暑期實習計劃 主辦單位:澳門電力股份有限公司、澳門大學 對象:澳門大學各學院的三年級學生。 詳情:澳門電力股份有限公司 培訓及實習計劃 實習生計劃 主辦單位:澳門自來水股份有限公司 詳情:澳門自來水股份有限公司 實習生計劃 疫境自強.職出前程 主辦單位:澳門勞工事務局 參與機構:澳門公共事務企業、銀行業及大型休閒企業 對象:2020年應屆大學畢業的澳門青年。 報名日期:2020年6月24日至7月6日 詳情:澳門勞工事務局 「疫境自強.職出前程」職場體驗計劃 quot;你quot; 想前途 2020澳門大專學生實習計劃 主辦單位:澳門高等教育局 承辦機構:澳門中華總商會青年委員會及澳門中華青年工商聯會 支持機構:南光(集團)有限公司、全國博士後創新(江門)示範中心新會分中心 對象:持有效澳門居民身份證,於2019/2020學年在本澳或本澳以外地區高校,修讀二年級或以上全日制學士學位課程,以及研究生課程之學生。 報名日期:即日起至2020年5月29日 詳情:澳門高等教育局 quot;你quot; 想前途 2020澳門大專學生實習計劃 自己動手做項目 求職者不妨透過做一些小型項目來累積工作經驗。譬如求職者可以自行編寫電腦程式、動手設計機械裝置、畫出具個人風格的畫、撰寫小說作品等。不但選擇種類多、自由度大、沒有時間限制,而且還有機會創造出獨一無二、極具創意的作品,必定能夠令僱主眼前一亮。 創業做老闆 現今澳門政府大力推動青年創業,提供援助計劃,讓有志創業的青年,憑著創新理念,開拓出一片新天地。正所謂「工字不出頭」,求職者不妨考慮創業,另開新道路。就算最後未能夠達到預期目標,也是一份難能可貴的工作經驗。 求職者除了可以透過做兼職、做義工、參加實習計劃之外,還可以自己動手做一些屬於自己擅長的作品和項目,亦都可以創業做老闆。當然,創業做老闆絕非易事。小編將於下一篇,亦都是【澳門求職攻略】系列的最後一篇,介紹在澳門有甚麼方法可以做老闆,以及可以得到甚麼方面的援助,敬請留意。 延伸閱讀: 【澳門求職攻略2020】踏出脫離失業第十步:我要創業做老闆 作者:IronMan

The Energy Transition and Survival Wisdom Between the Eighth and Ninth Luck Cycles
宗教玄學
熊神進・2026-01-05

The ThreeYuan and NineLuck system, a grand framework in Chinese metaphysics for interpreting the changes of time and space, operates on a 180year cycle, with an energy shift occurring every 20 years. The Eighth White Gen Earth Luck, spanning from 2004 to 2023, has come to an end. Starting from 2024, the Ninth Purple Li Fire Luck has officially begun. The energy transition from quot;Earthquot; to quot;Firequot; not only reshapes the underlying logic of the era but also manifests the intensity of energy collisions through events like wars and fires. Only by understanding the differences and inherent mechanisms can we secure our footing amid the changing circumstances. The Eighth Luck corresponds to the Gen Trigram in I Ching, where Gen represents mountains and belongs to the Earth element in the Five Elements theory, with its core energy characterized by quot;stability, tangibility, and accumulationquot;. As the element that bears and nurtures all things, Earth defined the global consensus of the two decades quot;He who holds land holds wealthquot;. Chinarsquo;s urbanization wave swept across the nation, with steel and concrete erecting thousands of new cities; the U.S. real estate frenzy before the subprime mortgage crisis and Dubairsquo;s construction of artificial islands through land reclamation all testified to the wealth code of the Earth Luck. The logic of success back then was crystal clearmdash;heavy assets, tangible industries, and solid infrastructure. Properties were hard currency, and land parcels were like moneyprinting machines; all values were anchored in visible, touchable material carriers, as stable and solid as towering mountains, forming the reassuring backdrop of that era under the influence of Earth energy. The Ninth Luck, which commenced in 2024, centers on the Li Trigram and belongs to the Fire element, boasting entirely distinct energy traits Fire embodies quot;dynamism, brightness, and intangibilityquot;, symbolizing both light and civilization while harboring inherent restlessness and unpredictability. Fire tends to flare upward, craving extreme attention and splendor; its flame is fickle, shifting with the wind, surging forth rapidly and fading just as quickly; its form is etherealmdash;one can see the blazing flames yet grasp not a single tangible particle. This energy transition is by no means a smooth one. The period from 2024 to 2025 serves as an interim phase where the stability of Earth and the restlessness of Fire clash fiercely. The chaotic phenomena in the world are precisely the external manifestations of this energy misalignmentmdash;and this marks the most fundamental difference between the Ninth Luck and the Eighth Luck the Eighth Luck pursues quot;stabilityquot;, while the Ninth Luck strives for quot;changequot;; the Eighth Luck emphasizes quot;tangibilityquot;, while the Ninth Luck focuses on quot;intangibilityquot;; the Eighth Luck is about quot;laying the foundationquot;, while the Ninth Luck is about quot;breaking the moldquot;. From Feng Shui perspective, the overflow of Fire energy in the Ninth Luck has directly given rise to two types of typical events. First is geopolitical conflicts. Fire governs quot;flaring up and disputesquot;, and the Li Trigram also connotes quot;separation and oppositionquot;. When Fire energy abounds without proper guidance, it is prone to triggering confrontations and wars. The prolonged stalemate of the RussiaUkraine conflict and the border frictions between Thailand and Cambodia are, in essence, the materialization of the quot;restless energyquot; of the Fire Luck in regional energy fields. The balanced patterns established during the previous Earth Luck have been shattered; disputes and conflicts are like sparks that can easily ignite a prairie fire, which is exactly the manifestation of the quot;combative naturequot; of the Li Fire. Second is the frequent occurrence of fires. The quot;Fire Shaquot; energy in the Ninth Luck has intensified. As recorded in The Ten Books of Yangzhai Residential Architecture, Fireshaped Sha is associated with the risk of fires and bloodshed disasters. Moreover, the sharpangled structures and flammable building materials in modern architecture further exacerbate the accumulation of fiery and dry energy. The massive fire that broke out in a fivestar Residential in Hong Kong at the end of 2025 spread rapidly through the buildingrsquo;s structure, causing heavy losses in a short time. This incident serves as a direct warning of the quot;intense Fire energyquot; in the Ninth Luck, standing in stark contrast to the Eighth Luck period, when largescale and fastspreading fires were rare. Of particular concern is the year 2026mdash;the Bingwu Year in the Chinese sexagenary cycle. The Heavenly Stem Bing represents Yang Fire, like wildfires raging across the grasslands, while the Earthly Branch Wu represents Yin Fire, like embers smoldering and burning inward. The overlapping of these two Fire elements creates a scenario of quot;adding fuel to the firequot;, making it the year with the most intense Fire energy in the entire Ninth Luck cycle. This blaze does not only consume the material world but also drains peoplersquo;s mental and physical vitalitymdash;the Li Trigram corresponds to the heart, eyes, and blood circulatory system in the human body. Excessive Fire energy is likely to induce health issues such as hypertension, cardiovascular and cerebrovascular diseases, and emotional irritability. The quot;stable daily routinesquot; that suited the Earth Luck era can no longer adapt to the energy rhythm of the Fire Luck, making physical and mental imbalance a prevalent risk.

From the perspective of feng shui, why do people in Macau feel dissatisfied and complain about everything?
宗教玄學
熊神進・2023-03-21

Column Name Macau Feng Shui There are three important discussion points in Feng Shui, one is quot;Dragon Veinsquot;, one is quot;Shuikou Nozzlequot;, and the other is quot;Feng Shui pointsquot;. quot;Dragon veinquot; is to see the ups and downs of a place, quot;Shuikou Nozzlequot; is to see the water flow of the harbor, and quot;Feng Shui pointquot; is to see the residence. Macau is located in the southeast of China, on the west bank of the outlet of the Pearl River Delta. It includes the Macau peninsula, Taipa Island and Coloane. The sea area is 85 square kilometers, while the land area is 33.3 square kilometers. As of the end of September last year, the total population was 671,900. According to Feng Shui theory, Macau is located in the lower reaches of the Pearl River Delta. The water in the lower reaches is relatively shallow and the flow rate is not high, so Macau is surrounded by silt, and the silt deposits produce negative energy. Negative energy needs to be absorbed by high mountains. Unfortunately, there is no high mountain in Macau, so negative energy accumulates Down into bleakness. According to the ratio of population to land area, Macao is a highly densely populated place. Homes have their own magnetic field, and people have their own energy. Poor ventilation stuck the field and energy, followed by many problems, such as disease, poverty, and public grievances. Shakespeare once said quot; ldquo;The miserable have no other medicine, but only hope.rdquo;. The reason why the residents of Macau are full of resentment is because the feng shui aura is not smooth. The turbid air causing the citizens burning out of work and feeling frustrated with life. Also, the muddy water makes people feel the future is uncertain, and young people find their opportunities is limited. In recent years, Macao has completed largescale land reclamation between Ponte de Amizade and Ponte Governador Nobre de Carvalho. The design style and length of the two bridges of the reclamation project are different, and the bridges are not extended parallel. Near Taipa Island, the water inlet is relatively narrow. This shape looks like a funnel. The Feng Shui pattern is called quot;thin water and long flow.quot; However, the government did not follow the Feng Shui requirements. The reclamation straightened the shoreline and sped up the water flow. Regarding Feng Shui, water is wealth, and wealth is economy. Speedy water flow means rushing out the wealth, which also accelerates the accumulation of sediments downstream. When the sediments pile in the water, economic development is also stagnant. Young people's future is full of barriers as well. No wonder their grievance is growing. The ancients believed that the sea water should not be too turbulent. Instead, slow and meandering water is associated with affection and livelihood. This is true in Feng Shui. Macau is located in the lower reaches of the Pearl River, the bank is shallow so the water flow is naturally slow. However, the reclamation further block the water flow. Sediment is accumulating. In resonance, people also feel stuck and in bad mood always. The current remedy is to restart the Portas do Entendimento, which is the Memorial Gate of SinoPortuguese Friendship, and also the quot;Luo Xingquot; meaning ldquo;gaterdquo; on Fengshui Shuikou the nozzle. This door implies the meaning of quot;integrationquot;, quot;harmonyquot; and quot;doorwayquot;. It is called quot;Ronghemenquot; in Chinese. Everyone lives in peace and harmony. The water flow is reactivated to relief the negative energy accumulated presviouly. Macau is not a battleground for partisan political struggles, nor is it a trick for citizens to complain about the governmentrsquo;s governance. Many local people and people from abroad have always regarded Macau as a paradise for retirement. This shows that Macau is a peaceful place to recuperate and get rich. Because of the lack of proper feng shui setting in the city planning, the public will feel a sense of grievance and dissatisfied about everything. Note The Shuikou nozzle, the inlet and outlet of the water flow. MICKEY HUNG By MICKEY HUNG